Before my first two classes in Scientology: the Communications course and the Overcoming Ups and Downs in Life course I had a hard time tolerating my father. I blamed him for so many things. Through these 2 courses I realized, we all need a scapegoat, I thought. I learned how to handle my life so that I learned to love my dad for the first time since I was a kid and I was able to take care of him until his passing 4 years later. I thank Scientology for all of this. Believe me it was like a miracle.