If you want to find out more about Dianetics and Scientology, the best way to do this is to read an L. Ron Hubbard book on the subject. I personally recommend you read Dianetics 55!
Understanding is the universal solvent. I wanted to solve, not to be on the receiving end, as in a problem. This book really clarifies and examines what communication is and its importance. Yes, this book definitely is a favorite of mine.