My husband and I have four children at various ages. Before Scientology I was divorced and was going to be a professional career woman only and not have kids at all. Then I met my husband who was a Scientologist. He was divorced also and was newly investigating Dianetics and found it was what he was looking for. Then he met me, the career woman, we got together and read books. I then did some Scientology courses and found what my real purpose in life was and changed it. I still worked but I had other goals too.